A very nice custom which facilitates the parents to be to get a lot of useful gifts for their unborn baby is by way of a shower party. This is a party which is arranged by family of the parents to be and close friends and each person gifts them with something which the new baby will require. The shower party helps parents to get most of the baby items they will need prior to the baby’s birth so that they do not have to worry about the additional expense and it is also the thoughtfulness of the friends and relatives that matters. In certian regions this is done only after the birth of the baby, but the proverbial baby shower is done before its birth.
Baby showers are in general held for women only and they invite the mother to be only, however, sometimes the fathers are also invited and other men also participate in it. As per the tradition this was a party built specially for the women. Sometimes the father to be’s male friends, host a baby shower party for the father alone.
There are baby stores which present gift coupons of different denominations which helps the parents to select what they need for the baby themselves and there will be no duplication of gifts or useless gifts.
Baby showers are conducted in different countries according to their own customs and traditions. The Jews don’t give gifts before the child’s birth; some have the get gathering during the seventh month of pregnancy and many towards the end of the pregnancy. before all these functions were for women only in all the cultures but now with the Western influence most get-to-gethers are for both parents. Initially this was also done only for the first born of the family, but now it happens for the birth of all the children.
The baby shower party is normally hosted by a close friend of the parent to be. The party is very much like a usual fun party with games and music and good food. The person who is hosting the party may coordinate it along with other close friends and organize it jointly. Invitations are sent out and these are specially made for baby showers. There is a theme for the party much like there is for weddings and bridal showers. Usually the theme is the baby here.
Baby Gifts range from diapers, baby cribs, prams, sheets, feeding bottles, baby foods and other useful items for the baby. Many present gift coupons which the parents can use to buy stuffs which are required later. The venue can be at anywhere where parties can be hosted, very much like the pre nuptial showers or bachelor's party prior to the the wedding. It could be at a friend's house too if it is large enough to host such a gathering.
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